• Kapurpurawan Rock Formation
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    Kapurpurawan Rock Formation: The Powerful Lesson The Waves Taught Me

    What if the worst things that happened to you were actually sculpting you into something beautiful? I know how ridiculous that sounds. For years, it felt as though my life was falling apart. I used to think I had chosen the wrong career. My marriage ended, and the plans I once believed in collapsed one by one. Then I stood in front of the Kapurpurawan Rock Formation in Ilocos Norte, a natural wonder that has been beaten by wind and waves for centuries.  Everything that tried to destroy it made it more beautiful.  Maybe I wasn’t breaking at all. Perhaps I was being carved. The Kapurpurawan Rock Formation was arguably…

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    Dinadiawan Beach: Why Laziness Is The Ultimate Form of Self-Respect

    When was the last time you did nothing and didn’t feel guilty about it? Can’t remember? Honestly, neither could I. Most of us can’t remember the last time we took a break without guilt creeping in. We were all raised to believe that doing nothing is a sin. Recently, I spent a couple of hours in Dinadiawan Beach, Aurora.  And you know what happened there? Nothing. I mean that in a literal sense. I stood around, walked along the shore, and took a few photos. That’s it. And strangely, that nothing became the most important part of the trip. Dinadiawan Beach wasn’t the type of beach you see on typical…

  • Quirino Province: What Happens When You Stop Fighting Time
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    Quirino Province: What Happens When You Stop Fighting Time

    What would you do differently if you knew you had ten years left? What would you do if you knew tomorrow was your last day? These questions have been lingering inside my head for the past few years. And every time I asked myself these questions, I end up in a place that I’ve never been to. This time, it was Quirino Province. An overlooked province with no claims to fame and Instagram-worthy hotspots. And like always, the place I’d never been to taught me something I wasn’t looking for. It even gave me answers to questions I’ve never asked.  So, what can an underrated province teach you about life…

  • Bauko 7 Peaks: The Truth About Illusions And Limits
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    Bauko 7 Peaks: The Truth About Illusions And Limits

    How many times can you question your life choices in a single morning? I counted seven in the first hour of my Bauko 7 Peaks hike. Question one came when I realized I hadn’t slept well in two weeks and my body was demanding payment. Question seven came when my left calf suddenly tightened and screamed hijo de puta in Tagalog. Yet even with the hiccups and the voices screaming to turn back, quitting wasn’t an option. Throughout my life, I’ve learned how to bend reality and shift stubbornness into fuel. Seven peaks meant seven chances to be wrong about my limits. The mountain was real. The pain was real.…